This life is unpredictable..one minute you're breathing..the next second ur gone..its too short to waste..why not cherish the things around you now and start counting your blessings...but when you cherish sumthing soo much...before you know it suddenly slips out of your hand..n that's the end...then how can i possibly hold on to sumthing and never let go??..that is not up to us to decide..God knows whether that sumthing is for you or not...we just have to have faith..for He knows best..when you learn how to let go of sumthing so precious to you..you are exercising ur trust that if its God's will that sumthing will always be yours..if its not yours then He has sumthing else even better..i know its scary..it happened to me..n im still learning to trust HIM in total obedience...God, you are in control..AMEN..